I am really missing friends these days. Someone with whom I can talk endless, laugh, fights, explore the city and have fun. I have lost all my good friends, not delibratly but everyone has the reason. I am missing all my friends so much.
I think I have become very negative towards life. Two of my previous post were also like this. Its not that I am very sad and weaps entire day but I think I have lost the spark of my life.
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Hey Nidhi ,
Saw ur new posts today.
be positive towards ur life. enjoy and keep smiling.
hope u get in touch with ur all friends.
Take care.
By: Dilip on March 2, 2008
at 12:53 am
Nidhi,
What you wrote is LIFE [in a nutshell]. You lose old friends but then you also gain new one, and this is not losing the spark of life.
Losing the spark would be when you just sit down and keep on thinking that I have no friends, instead of going out and making new ones.
Best of luck.
By: Neeraj on March 3, 2008
at 11:33 am
Hi Dilip, Thanks I am trying to become positive towards life.
Hi Neeraj, I agree with you completly. Life is all about losing and gaining. Probably I am thinking more about the losing part. Life is not so bad after all 
Love
By: Nidhi on March 3, 2008
at 2:39 pm
i tried to understand the words ..but i think i am failed…. :-)its your priorities makes the difference make the difference…if you really wants to keep a relationship.. you can do that.. so..all the best and this world indeed contains lot of good people and lot of good books. enjoy the beauty of all these and of course be the best friend of your little champ.
By: Sree on March 31, 2008
at 3:14 pm
Arey Nidhi ji, tension nahi lene ka. Apun hai na. Apun banega tumhara friend.
Well, buck up yaar. Don’t be so negative about everything. It’ll get better with time. You’ll make new friends and the old ones will call back and catch up.
As far as I have known you (through all the posts you’ve written), you are a strong person with a pure heart, full of ideas, full of energy and mischief. You need to get all that back!
I know saying things is one thing and facing the responsibility of a child and staying at home all day without work is another. I know that the TV gets boring after a while, the computer comes towards you to gobble you up and all sorts of lights/gas knobs/doors always automatically switch on and open… and you’ve to waste your energy in all those useless tasks. Sometimes the baby poops in the pants, and its all messy.
Am I boosting you or demoralizing you? Now that I’ve made you imagine the worst possible, things can only get better from here. I guess you need to start doing a job, if not a real one that pays, if not one that involves you working 8 hours in office, then something lighter, more part-time than full time. It could be as simple as making small wooden/paper show pieces at home, or it could be as complex as starting a restaurant at home 
(ok, you don’t like cooking all the time, eh, I forgot that part).. hehe.
All I want to say in a nutshell is, that you need to start being more busy in some activity. A lonely home, too much of unproductive redundant work and tons of responsibilities; all this is pulling you down. You need to fight back and regain your life.
And you could set deadlines of your own, like when the baby is like, lets say 1 years 3 months, you both (Nishank and you) can take two tickets and go on a movie “date” :).
Hope you are feeling better.
Regards,
Anurag.
By: Anurag on April 7, 2008
at 6:48 pm
I hope you are okay by now.
Well, you seem to missing the previous life thats all. It will take some time to get new friends and you will get new life spark.
By: JV on April 9, 2008
at 6:35 pm
Hi Anurag, Nice big comment. I really liked reading it.
You can be a writer.
Definatly I will go to a movie date with Nishank when he will grow up. Although now I have started going out with him to one of the park which has rides and all for 2-3 hrs. Gradually everything would be fine. I have started looking for the positive side. Thanks for such encouragement, I really appreciate it.
Hi JV, How are you. Yes, sometime I really miss my previous life. My present is also very lovely, so no more regrets. Take Care
By: Nidhi on April 14, 2008
at 10:51 pm
Welcome Back….Nidhi,
Mayank
By: Mayank on April 25, 2008
at 7:12 pm
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