Since last few days I was thinking what I have get after marriage. I may have thought because of frustration I was going through but today I am much more relaxed to write it down.
1) BEFORE: 2 yrs. back I was like an independent bird. My weekdays were also like weekends. Who says one get tired after office, I used to freak out even after office which used to close down at 1730 hrs. I have gone to all most all the restaurants in South Delhi area. It used to be such a fun. Weekends were in some movie hall with Sandwiches and Popcorns. Even the flop movie used to be so much entertaining.
AFTER: Can somebody tell me what is the difference in Weekdays and Weekends. Oh yes, on weekends, I have to make list of the household items like wheat, rice, oil, vegetables, masala powders etc. etc. It is better to order Pizza at home then to explore new restaurant in the area. No movie makes any wonder, you have to watch it silently for not to disturb husband.
2) BEFORE: Pocket money was the best. I used to take pocket money from my salary (my parents used to take care of my salary). I was like a princess, no tension before purchasing anything. Lee and Levis were my favorite brands for Jeans. I used to experiment variety of clothing, accessories, foot wear etc etc.
AFTER: Lee and Levis are gone, Newport is in. My part time job is to check out if there is any scheme going on like buy 5kg wheat and get 1 kg of sugar free. Its not that my partner tells me to do that, but you have to do because you are managing the finance of the house and you only are responsible for the future savings and investments for your own and for your child.
3) BEFORE: With my close friends I do have the commitment to stand by them but there was no legalities attached to it.
AFTER: I am now legally committed to my partner for life long. Not even in dreams I can think of leaving him. You have to compromise on certain things, whether you like it or not (this goes for both of us)
4) BEFORE: I was carefree, no responsibilities, no dusting, no cleaning, no cooking……
AFTER: Marriage comes with responsibilities towards your family which is actually good. I don’t know why but it is good to get responsible.
There are many other things beside these. There are so many good things as well after marriage but I can’t think of it now. May be sometime later I will mention those.
Have a happy married life to all married couples 
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