Posted by: Nidhi | October 4, 2006

Swear language is not bad at times

Day before yesterday was an eventful day. My partner and I was coming back to home in the auto rickshaw. I was keep on cribbing about the auto driver who kept his auto engine on even on the traffic jam. I was lecturing my partner that these people are responsible for so much pollution. I even complaint the driver also, to stop his engine when the traffic light is for longer period. I have bugged my partner a lot becoz of that. When we were about to reach home, a crazy bike driver who was driving rashly, about to hit the auto rick. On top of that, he made the face, as if he is not guilty. He said something to auto driver, I didn’t listen that, but then all of sudden my partner used a swear language and screamed on him to go. I have never heard my partner using the swear language, that was the first time and he didn’t use the sophisticated version of swear words, it was one of those typical swear.

Generally I am very particular about the use of swear language in public or in front of gals but the other day it became very difficult for me to control my laugh. He was in bad temperament so I can’t dare to laugh. My partner is very silent, kind and peaceful person, it was much unexpected from him. I enjoyed seeing the new version of my partner who can get angry on wrong things when required.

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Nidhi never misunderstand silent people.They are more angry than any one else but at right time.Swear langauge often spoken has no effect .Once in a while gives effect like injection.

And bechara u partner u bugged him and he just listend to u like good guy ;)

dear Nidhi ,
he used swear language on someone who was cribbing on auto driver even after making mistakes. u buuged ur partner in auto rickshaw and he listened u all ur things and finally he ended up with swear language on someone that was “unexpected” from him. chalo u experienced something new. u marked this incident as “EVENTFUL ” .it was cool to read.

Hi Vikas, lol :) I will say I am a good speaker and he is a good listener.

Hi Dilip, Thanks, really that was eventful. Aise cheeze roz sune ko kahan milti hain.

Well, sometime one has to talk to people in their language even if one does not likes it.

Unfortunately that “sometime” happened to come when you were around. And no, your lecture was not the reason for that :-)

I concur with Nidhi’s Partner, but what I usually do when I get involved in heated arguments (not very often) is never use swear words - but tend to say a negative remark in a low pitched voice followed by a measured pause and a stare.
It has worked so well, in numerous situtaions.
The only condition is to have an opponent who can understand your wit.

Just to mention one of my all time favourite comebacks. The incident happened at a gathering for a formal dinner and while Winston Churchill was making some tea for himself Lady Astor(who only had contempt for Churchill) walked over to Churchill and said “if you were my husband I would put poison in your tea.”
Churchill, gave her a brief stare and said the eternal witty statement:
“if you were my wife, I would drink that tea”.
I have read this a while ago, cant quite remember the exact words, but it had the same effect.

hope you guys get it.

Dear Partner, Main faltu main soch rahi thi ki maine pareshan kiya sare raste tumhe.
I know, you don’t like to use bad language but as you said, it becomes must sometimes.

Hi Aurumbo, best example for those who frequently use the swear language.

Cheers
Nidhi

what was he more annoyed of:-

a. you cribbing him
b. the auto driver keeping the engine on
c. or over the biker…!!

btw……i would have done the same thing….in true bollywood ishtle….!!

kote..kamina….main tera khoon pe jaaonga…!!!

just jokin..!!

ankit,

hi nidhi,hope everything is fine.
i agree with your partner. uski language mein bolo tab jaakar usse samajh mein aate hai.

bye for now.

may god bless you and your family.

hi nidhi,hope everything is fine.

i agree with your partner. uski language mein bolo tab jaakar usse samajh mein aatahai.

bye for now.take care

may god bless you and your family.

Ab yahan fir se comment karu kya :P

GBU
Arti *yawn*

Hi Ankit, I think option “c” is correct.

Chii, auto driver ka khoon, U have no taste at all.

Hi Nabeel, Thanks Nabeel for the blessings

Hi Arti, nahi I have read your comment in Messy day. Thats ok. Mujhe bhi neend aane lagi tumhara comment par ke.

hey nidhi, can i hae ur contact no so that i can talk to u once pls. just leave an offline message at my messenger. my messenger id id bhushan_libra@yahoo.com. wating for ur response.

very interesting, but I don’t agree with you
Idetrorce

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