Posted by: Nidhi | September 29, 2006

Average Looking gal= Commitment + value for relationship

Today from one of my very close friend, I got to know that average looking girls are much more in demand then the beautiful girls. His survey was from his own college from where he is doing MBA. I was kinda taking it as joke, but he was quite confident about what he was saying. As per him, the average looking girl understands the value of relationship and commitment. So they are much more in demand. Beautiful girls are difficult to approach and they are not reliable.

hmmm…I don’t know the way he thinks is right or wrong. I was bit confused, I thot let me write on my diary and see what other thinks on that, esp’ boys.

Its kind of a stupid post, but I am curious to know if he thinks is right or not.

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I think no its not totally true.Up to some extent it may be coz beautiful girls have some proud of their beauty but they can be tackled .In General when ever guy looks beautiful girl he reacts like the way dog reacts after seein bone and this is the reason beautiful girls are difficult to approach.Treat every girl as girl thats it…

Enough of lecture ;)

JSK
Vikas

By: vikas on September 29, 2006
at 7:36 pm

hmm. i guess that could maybe be true. it might be true for guys too. i’d rather have an average looking guy that is nice than a really good looking guy who is a jerk.

By: lisa on October 3, 2006
at 1:25 am

Hi Vikas, Yeah actually beautiful gals are difficult to approach but they are not aliens. They also want friends and a nice partner.

Hi Lisa, Thats not necessary that a handsome guy will be a jerk, but even I prefer average looking guy. May be because, its a perception that a handsome boy will be a flirt.

Cheers
Nidhi

By: Nidhi on October 3, 2006
at 11:08 am

Hi Nidhi ,
well even i think its not totally true. Some beautiful girls may show a lot of ‘nakhra’ but they can be changed . i agree that beautiful girls are difficult to approach as many people will be in queue to approach them . and thats why those gorgeous girls crib and may not show much respect. but i think these beautiful girls can be changed over the time when they will face the reality. here “reality” i mean people will prefer those girls who are intelligent and have good sense of humour rather than very beautiful girls who are dumb.

By: Dilip on October 3, 2006
at 12:43 pm

Hi,

My first visi to this blog. Very nice indeed.
There seems to a logocal fallacy in your statement “that average looking girls are much more in demand then the beautiful girls” because, that would just mean that the said average girl is actually the beautiful girl.

Yes, it is a bit twisted, but if you think about it, the definition of what is beauty may have changed slightly over time.

After all beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and it would be presumptuous to assume that beautiful girls are incapable of maintaing a relationship or a commitment.

–
Aurumbo

By: Aurumbo on October 3, 2006
at 7:13 pm

Very well said Aurumbo, I totally agree with you.

By: Neeraj on October 3, 2006
at 7:23 pm

Hi Dilip, well said, like I believe, a average looking person is better then a cold handsome guy or beautiful gal.

Hi Aurumbo and Neeraj,
“it would be presumptuous to assume that beautiful girls are incapable of maintaing a relationship or a commitment.”

I agree too on that.
A real beauty is within, which can be within any average looking gal or a beautiful girl.

Nice comment by you. :)
Nidhi

By: Nidhi on October 3, 2006
at 8:10 pm

Hello again,

just came back to check up on the events, and realised how many spelling errors I made in my post.

But, thank you all for your comments.
Much appreciated.

–
Aurumbo.

By: Aurumbo on October 3, 2006
at 11:40 pm

I think pretty girls have it harder to have serious relationship because they get hit on more by the horny dudes than average-looking girls do. Some are superficial, no doubt, but all peoples have some superficial types.

By: Daijinryuu on October 5, 2006
at 3:51 am

hi,i also think the same thing..and a perticular reason is behind this.dat is a butiful gal has alot of fans..if c is very generous to everybody then definately c’ll face problem.i guess.
bye

By: sash on October 12, 2006
at 1:05 pm

well, do you mean to say that a maruti 800 is more reliable than an Alfa Romeo or a Rolls?? ;) :P

really, this might be a prejudice to some extent as you can’t say anything in concrete as far as human behaviour is concerned, especially girls. when you think you know all about it, a nasty surprise will come your way which will make you realise that you don’t know a thing! :)

just because you can’t be sure that a gorgeous knockout babe will be a nice person, same way you can’t be sure that an average looking gal wouldn’t be a b***h!!! it goes both ways, so a beautiful gal can be nice too & an avg gal can be horrible as well! :)

By: Amit on October 21, 2006
at 3:04 am

I totally disagree with that, it all depends how s/he has grown up, depends mostly on his/her friends and parents. It is ridiculous to say that a beautiful girl doesn’t have commitment and she will not know the value of relationships. And it applies to both boys and girls.

By: Kaps on November 1, 2006
at 12:09 pm

I think A W L girls are nice rather than beautifull girls.

By: yugal on December 24, 2006
at 10:09 am

I strongly believe that,

Beauty is Power of women & Power (wealth) is beauty of men

In most cases selection of partner is done on this formula only.

beautiful girls FIRST look for wealth/earnings of the guy, if he is average looking, doesen’t matter much for girls.

If guy is handsome & good looking but lacks MONEY ,
I don’t think any beautiful girl would accept him

Beautiful Boys & A L Girs Do Not Have Option To Choose

Beautiful girls have this option & they would prefer wealthy guy , beauty of guys doesn”t matter much.

Wealthy guys have option to choose & they would surely prefer Beautiful girls
coz in general for men opposite sex attraction is lot more than that of women.

If he chooses average lookng girls, wats the guarantee that she will be understands the value of relationship and commitment & she won’t be dumb.

Instead it’s always better to enjoy the beauty.
Rest is your FATE

By: Anil on January 20, 2007
at 1:14 am

the gorgeous girls get all the bofreinds .i am average looking girl an di can,t a boyfreind because they always the goodlooking ,tall,slim girls.and not me never me.i am a nice person ,but the guys i meet it all about goodlooks and being tall and slim.

By: louise on June 27, 2007
at 3:21 am

Appearences are hypnotic to any human eye, therefore a potential for attraction always exists be it male or female. Hence being beautiful attracts more proposals, as it becomes very difficult to maintain a low profile no matter what you do. Since multiple options are available at your disposal at any given time because of the attention that you draw from the masses, your commitment in sitcking to/with one option over a longer period decreases. The same phenomena works in a different manner for the average looking, with low profile and not much options available, hence it can be safely concluded that the statement is valid and applicable.

By: SUNNY on July 2, 2007
at 2:16 pm

Well I guess categorization and generalizations are the worst thing to do …..if you are doing for living beings specially humans.

Well I have plenty of names to name who are damn good looking, smart and pretty good by heart too…..You would love their company without reasons.

I just believe theirs no point categorizing them. Its just depend on the person you are with or whatever.
Know them comment them if you like but please dont categorize.

We are individuals not a herd.

By: Vijyant on September 19, 2007
at 6:36 pm

girls with fat face and fat body and 5ft2″ .is rejected by both average looking and goodlooking guy .so is that girl meant to be alone and unlove for all her life.because people are too shallow to care about whats on the inside then what on the outside.

every girl wants to be supermodel but not all girls get that dream some have to be ugly to even thing out.i am ugly person and not one guy nice has ever bothared aor cared about iam a nice person and i am gerous .i guess men don,t care about that now do they?

By: louise on October 6, 2007
at 4:35 pm

I am a normal guy who likes to sigh beautiful girls but like to marry a girl who is good at heart with moderate beauty. this doesn’t mean that beautiful girls are not good. only few are there. majority of girls think that all boys should see them.

i like aishwarya rai but i never had an intention of marrying her because it doesnt suite you. i am not talking about status here.

you have to feel from the bottom of the heart when you see a girl. if you got that feeling no matter how the girl looks, you would fall in love.

By: mbchandar on October 12, 2007
at 6:55 pm

Average looking girls are down to earth, more generous and ready to give in a relationship than beauties.

I prefer average girls for this reason.

Sunil.

By: Sunil on December 13, 2007
at 7:38 am

That’s so untrue!! Hey..which B-school is he attending? Interesting surveys they carry out isn’t it? He’s fooling you!

By: elusive on December 16, 2007
at 10:26 pm

Sunil, you prefer avg looking gals for one plain reason : wohi kisam ki ladkiyan tujhse patengi!! kiddin :) (actually am not kidding but kehne mein kya harz hai :))

By: vikas on December 16, 2007
at 10:27 pm

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