My Precious Moments

This post is to cherish all those who really made my memories precious and unforgettable.

My Msquare (nick name given by me): Once he spent thousands in a day to give me a grand treat and that is also without any occasion. My four jeans are gifted by him. He really liked to see me in jeans (not that he didn’t like me in suits). He was really a good friend, not because he used to give me treats and gifts because he was nice and kind person. I have very beautiful memories with him.

My Partner: The other day, my food was awful. One can only taste salt in the vegetable. My partner ate it without any comment, and didnt even make me realize that its so awful. When I tasted, I really felt bad that I am such a bad cook and really felt happy from inside that he didn’t comment at all. Its one of my precious moment with my partner.

Raz: He traveled 4 hours up and down from his home to my hostel, just to wish me “Happy Birthday”.

Shikhs: She was my room mate. She used to kiss me everyday in the morning to say me “Good morning” and many times she has taken my movie tickets to accompany her and her boyfriend so as I don’t feel alone since she used to go with her boy friend quite often.

My DMS Lecturer: Once I had short of attendance because I frequently used to bunk college to go home and freak out. The college authorities have started to send letter at home about the short attendance of the students. I have noticed my name as in short attendance in DMS lectures. I have asked lecturer
Nidhi: Sir, I am the only girl who has short attendance in this class. It doesn’t look nice
Lecturer: Yes Nidhi, that is very bad of you
Nidh: I know sir, but parents will get worried and meet you
Lecturer:Ok, I will increase your attendance but don’t just keep on bunking lectures. They are not so bad.
Nidhi: Yes will do sir.
He was very sweet lecturer and very kind. Though, I don’t remember whether I followed his advice or not.

Ashlesha: She was my School friend when I was in 10th class. We used to say each other “Best Friends”. Our coaching classes used to start at 7 in the morning. We both decided to meet on a common point. The other day, I thought to give her surprise to reach her home and give her company till coaching centre. I reached her home then got surprise that she has reached my home to give me a surprise. Her home was still on the way to coaching centre but mine was totally in other direction. We both were laughing like anything when we met at her home then, even our parents were also laughing.

Stranger in DC: I have visited DC (USA) for 8 days. I went to one store to purchase some items. I was trying to open the refrigerator but it was not opening. One nice looking guy probably from US came and asked can I open it for you. I said Thanks. He opened and remarked “You look like a princess”. It was very nice compliment from him. He really made my day.

My Blog Friend: One of my blog friend written me a mail that, he wants to write comments on all my posts.

Updated May 03 ‘06

Anju: She was my office collogue when I was working in Delhi office. She has a good sense of humour. She is so fun loving, she had faced very bad times also in her personal life. Still, she always smile and make other smiles too. I used to always share my problems/ difficulties with her. Although she is a good speaker but with me she has become a good listner too. I have a very bad habit of asking same question again and again if I am upset or have any problem. She used to answer everytime and that is also without loosing temper. I have seen her crying also like a kid but still she never loosed her courage and hope that everything will get fine in future.

There are many other good memories also. Sometime ppl around us makes us feel so important and inspire us also to do something for the ppl we love and sometimes to others also who are actually not related to our lives.

Money cannot buy happiness

Everyone say that money cannt buy happiness but we never deeply feel about that. Its so true that one can have lots of money but not happy. The true happiness never comes with money, its comes with love. There are people who can do anything to get money and power, sometimes they become calculative to choose a love mate who can further increase their bank account. For me, I can enjoy a lot by spending time with love mate and talk to him endlessly, even at home will do. What money will do if I am sitting at high style restaurant but my partner doesnt love me or talk to me. I would prefer a small restaurant but a partner who love me and make me feel important.

Other side, money is do important for living, I understand that. If I am sad or hurt, I would prefer to weap in Air Conditioner then in fan atleast luxury is there. lol Money is equally important but money cannt buy happiness, which only loving partner can give.

My first travel to Local Mumbai train

Yesterday I first time traveled in local train of Mumbai after staying four and half months here. My office collogue was kept on telling me since January that we will go to office by train. Its faster then auto rick which we take for up and down to office. Finally yesterday we left office at 6 pm, I wanted to reach home early as I have to cook food also. So she said lets go by the train, you will reach home early. I paniced, then she said “I am with you, dont worry. Once you start going then you will get a habit and this time rush will be less in Ladies Special Local Train” I said ok fine.

We reached station. She was teaching me how to understand the directions, which track, which platform etc. I couldnt understand much. The only thing which I understand was that my train will always come to platform no. 1 that information was enough for me.

Platform No. 1 was full of people. If you turn your face to left, you will see people. If you turn right, you will see people. There was no space left, everywhere its only people I can see. I presumed all are waiting for their own train.

One packed train came; Suchita told me it’s ours. Stand close to me and push yourself to inside. I said fine. When the train stopped, I stand and waited for the women who want to get down. I got shocked to see that both moves together. Ppl rush into the train to get inside and those who want to get down, push themself to get a chance to get down. OMG. Suchita entered, I couldnt undestand how and where to enter. Women are coming down and so many women were entering. There was no space. Suchita cannt even turn her head back to see me, it was so packed, but I could listen when she was shouting Nidhi come and grab the handle. Women and girls around me make out that its my first experience to travel by train. One girl, whose height was so small to me, advised me you move ahead and I am behind you. It was only 3 minutes, in which we have to enter. Train was almost about to move. I don’t know out of hurry where I have kept my foot and what I had hold. Inside also there was no space and girl who was behind me, telling me try to go inside. I smiled and said I couldn’t see any space to go inside. She replied you will never get but still try to push yourself to go inside. I don’t know how I have reached to back where Suchita was comfortably standing and laughing to me. She asked, your purse is with you, I said No its coming. I pull the purse to me then.

I didn’t get any physical harm (though I slipped on the railway tracks while crossing but that was becoz of high heels), in fact it was very exciting to me. I have never ever thought of going in such packed train. Suchita said, its better, rush is not more today. I am still wondering, what is the condition when there is a rush.

PAPPU and TEACHER

TEACHER : What is the chemical formula for water?
PAPPU : “HIJKLMNO! “!!
TEACHER : What are you talking about?
PAPPU : Yesterday you said it’s H to O !
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TEACHER : PAPPU, go to the map and find North America.
PAPPU : Here it is!
TEACHER : Correct. Now, class, who discovered America?
CLASS : PAPPU!
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TEACHER : PAPPU, how do you spell “crocodile”?
PAPPU : “K-R-O-K-O-D-A-I-L”
TEACHER : No, that’s wrong
PAPPU : Maybe it’s wrong, but you asked me how I spell it!
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TEACHER : PAPPU, give me a sentence starting with “I”.
PAPPU : I is…
TEACHER : No, PAPPU. Always say, “I am.”
PAPPU : All right… “I am the ninth letter of the alphabet.”
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TEACHER : “Can anybody give an example of “COINCIDENCE?”
PAPPU : “Sir, my Mother and Father got married on the same day, same time.”
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TEACHER : “George Washington not only chopped down his father’s Cherry tree,
but also admitted doing it. Now do you know why his father didn’t punish
him?”
PAPPU : “Because George still had the axe in his hand?”
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PAPPU : Daddy, have you ever been to Egypt?
FATHER : No. Why do you ask that?
PAPPU: Well, where did you get THIS mummy then?
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TEACHER : What a pair of strange socks you are wearing, one is green and one is blue with red spots !
PAPPU: Yes it’s really strange. I’ve got another pair just like that at home.
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TEACHER : Now, PAPPU, tell me frankly do you say prayers before eating ?
PAPPU: No sir, I don’t have to, my mom is a good cook.
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TEACHER : PAPPU, your composition on “My Dog” is exactly the same as your brother’s. Did you copy his ?
PAPPU: No, teacher, it’s the same dog !
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TEACHER : What do you call a person who keeps on talking when people are no longer interested?
PAPPU: A teacher

Does Clothes decide the nature of the person

I really couldn’t understand why everyone start presuming that girls who are wearing ethnic clothes are very simple, sober and innocent girls and girls who wear western clothes are rude, snob and indecent girls.

I want to ask those ppl, if I wear ethnic does my views and thoughts will also get change. In my personal experience, girls who always ethnic clothes are much more clever and manipulative then the girls wearing western clothes. Clothes doesnt change the nature of the person. I have seen most the people including boys and elder women that they take it for granted the western wearing girls are rude in nature and doesnt suit to their family which is so wrong (I am not considering the girls doing strip off).

Especially in India, I have heard boys saying that they want, girl wearing skirt as in their girl friend and girl wearing ethnic dresses as in their wives. What the hell. I want to say those boys that girls wearing suit/ saree (Indian ethnic dress) are not stamp of innocence. Those girls also might have played with many boys. Don’t judge a girl from her dress up and its wish what she wants to wear. Don’t just start presuming that only because she is wearing western she has become flirt and rude.

Good people fall in love

When I was small, I used to think that the girls who are having affair are bad girls and don’t have family values. It’s not only me, most of us when fall in the same situation then realize that it’s not wrong which we used to presume wrong. May be our elders teach like this so that we don’t get involved with anyone when we are immature to take any important decision of life.

After staying in hostel for three years and then two years in work, I realized that people who have their love partners are very loving, caring, understanding then the people who doesn’t believe in love relationships. In fact I have noticed this change in myself. We become a good person when we fall in love not only with our partner but with others as well. May be we adopt the good qualities of our partner and partners also keep on advising when we do something wrong which rarely any other will tell.

The people who just go into affair as in their prestige point, for show off in front of their friends or just to have physical relationships are emotionless, rude, helpless and carefree people. They are not only bad for their love mate but also for other people. At any point, they can betray the relationship.

Fights between my partner and me

Sometimes after a fight with my partner when I seriously think about the matter, it really looks so funny, why we have fought on such small thing. The most interesting thing between our fights that we have never shouted on each other when we are fighting. Its more of cold war between him and me and we dont have to work hard for the patch up. We both do the patch up within ourselves. Our max time limit to get angry from each other is not more then one hour. Without saying sorry or asking why u scolded we chatted with each other as if nothing happened.

Day before yesterday, we have planned to go to movie. The scheduled time for movie was 2130 hrs and he told me that we will leave home at 2100. We finished our dinner at 2030 then I went to bath. I took 30 mins as I washed few of my clothes as well. I came out at 2100 and then took another 10 mins to get ready. He didnt talk to me at all on other day as he got angry that I dont respect time. Yesterday while doing chating with him on messenger, we really had a fight on this issue. I was telling him only becoz I was 10 mins late you got so angry that u didnt talk at all and he was telling you dont respect time. We both got upset. After office when I reached home, he also reached just after 15 mins. I was doing cooking, he started washing dishes. I have kissed him on cheeks and said dont wash I will wash it later. He said no no I will wash and we started teasing each other. After a while, I remembered that we had fight one hour before. I dont know what’s the chemistry in between us that we both forgive each other and try to understand each other’s condition.

Once I had a fight with my partner that he doesn’t fight with me. lol.